Marriage advice for after the wedding day
Your wedding is one of the most important days of your life. We totally get it and we are here to help you all the way through! We love sharing all of our best tips, tricks, and inspirations on our blog and social media pages, but one of our great joys is seeing all of the weddings we have a part in blossoming into strong and lasting marriages. Your wedding is the start of the rest of your life, your happily ever after.
While wedding planning is important, we find the couples tend to put all of their energy into planning for that special day and neglect to plan for their marriage…their forever. Your wedding day is one wild, beautiful, magical day, but it is just one day; then it’s onto your marriage! Why wouldn’t you want to plan for that amazing ride as well? We think you should!
In order to help couples enter their marriage in the best mindset possible, we are bringing you four tips to help your marriage start (and stay) healthy and full of love. A marriage that captures your beautiful wedding day is the best gift we can think of!
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Pick your battles
This may seem like the most simple of all tips but it holds so much truth! You and your partner are totally different people, you compliment each other in a special and unique way. When they do something that drives you totally up the wall (because they will!) just take a few minutes to breathe and ask yourself “does this really matter?”. If the answer is “YES” then take some time to think about why and the best way to approach the person you love most. Never ever discuss something that upsets you in the heat of the moment. Remember, you may regret the things you say when you’re upset but you will never regret the things you wait to say.
2. Always say “I love you”
Never forget to keep your love alive. Kisses before you leave for work, hugs just because and small romantic gestures should never be forgotten. Tell your partner thank you, even for the little things, especially for little things.
3. Make time for the two of you
Make time for JUST the two of you. This is especially important if you decide to have children, once that crazy journey begins it is easy to lose the two of you to hectic life. Even before you begin to build your family, between friends and family members and work you have to remember to prioritize your relationship. It’s not selfish. It’s crucial for the success and longevity of your marriage. You are the foundation of your family.
This is the most important tip we have because it encompasses all aspects of your marriage! In all things, communication must be the top priority. 100%. You must be able to talk it out when things make you happy or when things upset you. Don’t hold things in and let them fester or build up. Say what you need to, work it out and move on.
A few of these tips may seem obvious and some of them are, but we believe every single one is crucial to a strong foundation for your marriage. Your marriage is a beautiful, safe, and exciting team and just like every relationship it takes work. Some days are going to be easy as (wedding) cake and some days will be a little more difficult but take it from us, your marriage is the best investment you can make.
What are your best tips for a happy and healthy marriage? Let us know below!